If you mention strap-on harnesses with dildos, the first thing that would occur to most people is girl-on-girl scenes in porn where the actress wearing the harness plays as if she were a man, using vigorously a pretend penis to have intercourse with the other actress.

However, strap-ons are not solely about women pretending to be men. Lots of heterosexuals love strap-on play as much as some gay male couples do. Indeed, using strap-ons during sex can be fun for everyone. With just a tiny bit of sensual imagination, strap-ons can add excitement, novelty, playfulness and even deeper intimacy to your love-making repertoire.

A strap-on dildo is a dildo attached to a harness which is worn around the waist or hips during sex. This gives women an artificial penis right where one should be, or, in the case of men, provides an extra penis right below his own. Also a person who does not have a penis may use a strap-on, as may a person whose penis is no good for penetration, whether due to size or function.

A strap-on dildo is used for a wide range of sexual activities, including solo or mutual masturbation, as well as vaginal, anal or oral sex.
Some strap-ons are designed specifically for men, for example, the Great Value Strap-On Sex Dildo. Others are made with women in mind and include a removable vaginal plug on the inside of the harness.

Strap-ons can be a great turn-on because they offer different experience! If you use a regular dildo you have to guide it by hand. Strap-on dildos free your hands, allowing them to be used to stimulate all other sensual parts of your partner’s body. Moreover, strap-ons enable men to play at having two erections at the same time which opens a possibility of double penetration, both vaginal and anal. Thousands of women know what overwhelming pleasure double penetration can give.
Finally, exploring new avenues for having sexual fun brings you and your lover closer together. Many couples don’t like talking about their sex lives, whether out of shyness or other inhibitors. Because the use of a strap-on requires some sexual experimentation, lovers need to discuss how they’d like to enjoy this spicy innovation in their sex lives. This encourages partners to talk more openly about sex, which breeds sexual intimacy. Both emotional and physical intimacies are the reasons behind a burning ‘turn-on’