Bondage can be extremely passionate and loving act between two or more people. BDSM, believe it or not, is actually a lot of fun! If it’s not, then you shouldn’t indulge in it. Some people may find it humiliating and even violent, but in fact it takes very caring, loving and delicate people to partake in this sort of sexual play. People, who practice BDSM, are very faithful and loyal to each other; they truly care about their partner’s desires and well-being. Couples, involved in BDSM, are generally more honest with one another, enjoying full confidence on both parts. For some couples sex may be one of the most difficult topics to talk about. But not for couples practising BDSM, because they have already built up and are always sharing a very open-minded and honest communication in order to play their bondage games with a feel of complete security.

There is a type of bondage play in which the submissive (the one that has given him/her self to the dominant) gets restrained and teased with various kinds of stimulation, having no right to orgasm until the dominant (the person that has been given all the power) permits it. You will never believe how much fun this type of play is unless you give it a try. This restrained-and-teased type of play can involve spanking, whipping or just giving different types of sensational caressing and stimulation on your partner’s skin or genitals, which brings incredibly pleasurable sensations.

If you intend to indulge in some bondage fun, you should always get thoroughly prepared for the play, planning out detail by detail from the get-go. In order to start things off you may want to obtain a number of articles that you would touch and massage your lover with, and then get him/her restrained. Just the simple fact that your partner is forbidden to move is going to increase his/her sense of touch. Once one partner is restrained or is simulating it, the other may pleasure them with manual stimulation, oral sex or even intercourse.
Just think about it. Your body is totally surrendered to your lover by being restrained with handcuffs or otherwise and maybe even blindfolded. The confidence you have in your partner and the confidence your partner knows you have in him is an absolute turn-on all by itself! You have no doubt that your partner will give you absolute pleasure, and your partner knows that he/she has been given this kind of power. It is extremely erotic. And that’s just touching the surface!