There are so many people who are desperate to try sex toys, but are still embarrassed to do it. There are also lots of people who already enjoy sex toys for solo pleasure and are dying to use them with their partners, but are afraid of hurting their feelings. We are sure there are others out there who tried bringing sex toys to the bedroom but turned out unprepared for the negative reactions on their partners’ side. Whatever the case, if you take the right approach, you will easily introduce adult toys into your relationship. In fact, we recommend it, and for so many reasons!

First of all, sex toys feel good! No one would question that orgasms feel good. And adult toys help you experience better, longer and more intense orgasms, which is always good. Second of all, sex toys are lots of fun. Most couples involved in a long-term relationship will eventually get bored with their sex lives. Sex toys can bring the lost spice back into your lovemaking and keep it from getting dull. Sharing new experiences together brings couples closer and deepens their intimacy. Moreover, adult toys make sex so much better! There are so many women who can’t climax through intercourse alone and need to receive clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Also, lots of men have trouble getting and keeping their erections as long as they would like. Sex toys can take care of both of these issues. They will also inject more zest even into a perfectly good lovemaking session, turning a great experience into an outstanding one.

If your partner is still hesitant about using sex toys with you, this is most likely due to the existing myths and misconceptions about sex toys. Needless to say that most of them are not true, but you should always treat your lover’s concerns seriously. So be prepared to deal with anything, including emotional discomfort and ignorance. The biggest concern for most partners is fear that he’s being replaced with something else. Well, a huge vibrating dildo that brings you to orgasm in virtually no time – yeah, your partner’s concern is quite understandable. So you should take your time to let him or her know that sex toys can’t possible replace human contact. Yes, a nice vibrator, such as the Twin Turbo Rabbit Vibrator, will give you a great orgasm, but it won’t cuddle with you afterwards, nor will it ever care about your feelings. If your partner has this fear, educate them and stroke their ego a little. Assure them that you’re more after exploration, than satisfaction. As with most relationship issues, good communication will go a long way towards solving the problem.