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More Intense Orgasms!

All couples, at the start of their relationship, are bound to have lots and lots of sex. Over the years, however, the interest in sex somehow wanes. If not that, your busy lifestyle will simply keep up with you and you might not even have the time to tangle the sheets with your significant other. If you don’t want things getting cold in the bedroom, however, you do need to exert the extra time and effort to spice things up. Read on to find out how you can do just that.

Top 5 Ways to Intensify Your Orgasms

Whether you’re a new couple or a long-time married couple, if you would like to make your orgasms longer-lasting and more intense, here are a few things that might help you out:

Turn your bedroom into a sensual haven.

Perhaps the reason why you’re not having more sex than you should is because your bedroom is brightly-lit and totally unromantic. Sometimes, all you need are some scented candles and music that you can get it on to.

Indulge in more foreplay.

Foreplay is something that not a lot of couples indulge in anymore. But if you want to have longer, more intense orgasms, it’s definitely something you need to invest in. It doesn’t even have to be physical foreplay. During the day, send your spouse or your boyfriend naughty text messages or a sexy photo. This will make him want to jump you as soon as he gets home.

Learn how to communicate your needs to your partner.

Women typically have more difficulties achieving an orgasm, especially through penetrative sex alone. If want to be able to achieve the big O, learn how to communicate your needs to your partner. You don’t have to go for dirty talk if you’re not comfortable, but at least voice out what you want to your partner so that you can both make adjustments in enhancing each other’s pleasure.

Slow it down, or speed it up.

Variety is the key in maintaining a non-boring sex life. Sometimes, you can speed it up while other times, you can slow it down and turn your bedroom romp into an all-nighter.

Use sex toys to spice things up.

Finally, you can introduce sex toys in the bedroom if you’d like to spice things up a bit. Aside from helping you have more intense, longer-lasting orgasms, these sex toys will also boost your intimacy as a couple, address some of the sex-related problems that you might have, and they are simply a lot of fun to use.

All in all, communication and respect for your partner are key in having longer, more intensified orgasms, so have fun trying these tips out.