Looking for new sexual avenues with your lover? Or trying to find an effective way to spice up your sex life, that’s become a little stale? Well, although there are plenty of options, you should definitely consider indulging in some light bondage. As bondage can be an incredibly powerful way to rekindle the passions between you and bring that lost spark back into your relationship, you should embrace this opportunity without a moment’s hesitation.

Basically, bondage is the art of being restrained for sexual pleasure and may include acts like biting, spanking, tying up your partner, playing with sensations like ice cubes and hot wax, making use of blindfolds and gags, and, of course, role-playing with partners taking on dominant and submissive roles. However, before engaging in any sort of sexual activity that would involve you being tied up, you must make sure you have full trust in your partner, otherwise your first bondage experience may be very frustrating. If you already have a trustworthy partner, you may rest assured there is something in bondage that both of you will love.

The awareness of being restrained and under your partner’s control is quite a turn-on all by itself. So educate yourself on using a few bondage restraints, including hand-cuffs, bondage tapes, arm and ankle restraints, etc. Restrain your partner in a way so they still feel comfortable (handcuff or tie them up to a chair, post or the bed), and blind fold them. Then use a feather tickler to drive your lover crazy with desire by tickling their skin in a sexy way. You may accompany this play with an oral stimulation of your partner’s genitals which may take them to the verge of orgasming at once.

The best option for all bondage beginners would be some nice bondage kit, such as the Bondage Play Fetish Kit. This great value kit features a ball gag with breathable holes for safety, a set of padded cuffs, suitable for wrists and ankles, and a blindfold. With lubricant and a tube of delay cream for him, also included in the kit, this is indeed a win-win purchase for both bondage beginners and the more experienced bondage enthusiasts.

Dressing up in sexy costumes and acting out some scenario will go a long way towards re-creating your ideal bondage fantasy. Needless to say how much fun you will have participating in that kinky fantasy of yours that’s finally come true.

There are so many ways in which you can incorporate bondage play into your lovemaking, whether this be just tying your partner up with a rope and then pleasing them, to suspending them from the ceiling or just dressing up in PVC clothes to stimulate the mind.