There are times when a couple fall into a rut and can no longer enjoy sex the way they used to before. Things have just become a little too stale, predictable and passionless. There is no spark that used to ignite your passions beyond control, bringing about waves of lustful dizziness in both of you. Well, have you given it any thought as to why you’re unable to enjoy the simple pleasure of sex? There is no excuse for losing enjoyment during sex with your partner, if you want to maintain a healthy relationship. Well, more often than not, the problem lies in the shortage of sexual foreplay.

In case you don’t know, foreplay is all the kissing, caressing, passionate nibbling on various body parts, tickling and taunting that go prior to the intercourse. It is a fact that women need more time to get into the mood than men do, and if you want to give your woman an unforgettable sexual experience with you, you’d better take your time to prepare her, rather than rushing to intercourse right away. In fact, a skilfully played foreplay will not only enhance your whole lovemaking experience, but is also one of the best ways to kick-start the lust back into your sex life.

So how can you go about prolonging your foreplay sessions and keeping things fresh and erotic? Introduce sex toys into your bedroom fun, and you’ll experience a whole new level of sexual preparation. Use a clitoral vibrator such as the Ultimate Vibrating Clit Teaser, to tease your partner’s breasts, lips and of course her naughty bits! Finger vibrators are very handy for foreplay as they are worn around one finger, making it easier to lose yourself in the moment without losing control or dropping the toy!

Indulge in some very stimulating and erotic tickling, by using the Playful Fetish Feather Tickler. Get your lover to lay on their back and blindfold them. Then use the ticker to stroke them gently, beginning at the top and slowly working your way down. Having them blindfolded will add to the sensation, and you may even want to tie them down with some sexy restraints, such as the Arm & Ankle Restraint.

Give your partner an erotic massage, starting from their feet and moving up to their ankles, knees, thighs, etc., until they’re in a state of total relaxation. Keep your lover’s pleasure in mind and give things a bit more time to develop with hot foreplay, and you’ll be surprised at how much more you get out of it. Indeed, foreplay is your free “aphrodisiac” that can tremendously enhance your lovemaking, and re-ignite your old passions with an even brighter flame.