As adults every day we face the challenge of making choices that affect our lives; where we live, what we eat and wear. We also must make conscious decisions about our relationships with people including sexual relationships and sexual health. Although society as a whole is more tolerant of alternate lifestyles than in the past, you still may be faced with a challenge from family and friends if you choose a sexual lifestyle that runs contrary to their principles.
In choosing an alternative lifestyle you should be clear on your motivations and fully understand the environment and the community you have chosen. There are some people who believe that a relationship with a person of the same sex will be easier to manage than a relationship with a person of the opposite sex. However no matter the gender of the person, it is the life experiences, education and attitudes that are most important in a relationship. Lesbian and gay couples can fall victim to the same negative relationship patterns that cause the breakdown of heterosexual relationships.
Having the freedom to choose whom you love regardless of gender, religion or race to most people is the natural order of things, however there are many factors and conditions that affect your ability to exercise this right. If you choose a lesbian, bisexual or gay lifestyle you will encounter a wide range of reactions including a calm acceptance of your choice.
Not everyone will agree with your decision however every person has a right to their own opinion. Be strong and stand your ground and you will be able to navigate through difficult situations and remain emotionally stable. Keep in mind that you cannot control anyone but yourself and be prepared to live your chosen lifestyle to the fullest regardless of any individuals who may disagree with your decision.