Women's FantasiesSome women like romance, dinner by candlelight, and walks by the moonlight – while others like things a bit rough around the edges and adventurous. No matter which category your girlfriend or wife falls under – or maybe she’s somewhere in between, it pays to know what her deepest, darkest sexual fantasies are. You can use this knowledge when tangling the sheets with her so that you can both have an amazing, sizzling hot time in bed.

How to Get a Woman to Reveal Her Sexual Fantasies

If you’re a guy who would like to use a woman’s sexual fantasies to pump up your sex life, here’s what you need to know:

All women do have sexual fantasies, even the shy, timid ones.

One of the biggest misconceptions that men have is that timid or shy women do not have hidden sexual fantasies. All adults have these and no matter what your partner’s personality is, there is bound to be something that you can discover. If she’s a fan or historical romance novels, for example, she might find it hot for you to ravish her like one of the characters she reads about. If she’s more into reading thriller or mystery novels, she might have a secret fantasy of doing it in public.

Create the right moment to ask her about it.

Women love to talk and by simply creating the right ambiance, your partner is bound to open up to you and reveal what her sexual fantasies are. A romantic dinner by candlelight, an after-romp talk, or a naughty round of strip poker are some of the best times for you to ask her about her sexual fantasies.

When living out her sexual fantasies, start things slow and work your way up from there.

Let’s say that she revealed that she wants to try something straight out of the pages of Fifty Shades of Grey. For this, you can start with something simple like a blindfold and a tickler. If you two have an amazing time using those, you can advance to something a bit heavier like a pair of toy handcuffs and a whip. It’s all about starting small then working your way up from there.

Work on improving yourself as well.

Finally, in order to live out all her sexual fantasies, you need to work on improving yourself as well. If you’re having problems with premature ejaculation, endurance, your level of sexual desire, or maintaining an erection, there are ways for you to address all these using a variety of techniques.

Most of all, have fun learning about a woman’s sexual fantasies because that’s what it’s all about: giving each other pleasure as you live out your deepest, darkest desires in bed.