Learn How to Wake Your Partner for Sex
This entry was posted on 20th August 2013.
Are You In the Mood?
For most couples, their typical time for tangling the sheets is before going to bed. But what if you're in the mood to have sex in the middle of the night, or early in the morning? Doing the deed during these times may be unusual for you or require more effort – but the results are definitely worth it when it comes to spicing up your sex life.
Just imagine how you’ll wake up with a smile on your face as you remember the things that you did in the middle of the night. Better yet, you can start the day right by indulging in a bit of bedroom romp. The trick is to wake your partner up gently, get him or her in the mood, and get right down to business.
How to Wake Your Partner for Sex
One of the biggest factors that contribute to the lulling of bedroom activities for most couples is the lack of variety. When you’re simply going through the motions, there’s no spice, excitement or a surprise factor anymore. The good news is that by indulging in morning or middle of the night sex, you can pleasantly wake your partner up and get him or her right in the mood for some hot sex. Here are a few tips on how you can wake your partner up for sex:
• In the middle of the night.
If you’re a married man and your wife allowed you to hang out with the boys, you would most probably catch her already sleeping once you get home. If you’re in the mood to give her some loving, make sure that you don’t smell like you have just gotten out of a drunken spree. Take a bath and brush your teeth, then gently get into bed with her.
The best way for you to test the waters is by placing your arm around her, or getting into the spooning position. If she doesn’t turn away, then that’s as clear a sign as any that you can move past the cuddling stage. Since you had her permission to go out anyway, she might even ask how your night went. It’s at this point that you can proceed to the seduction part. Play with her hair, lean in and whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Stroke parts of her body that she likes being caressed and if she responds positively, you can definitely take things from there.
• In the morning.
If you’re a woman and you would like to give your man a special treat, wake him up with oral sex in the morning. No man in his right mind would turn down a morning blow job, and he just might really get into it that he’ll return the favour! You can go for a quick romp in the morning just to get out of the house with a naughty smile on your faces.
All in all, the key to waking up your partner for sex is to do it gently. Start with caresses on parts of his or her body that you’re already familiar with – and when you receive a positive response instead of a stern “Don’t wake me up” command, you can let things progress from there. Having sex in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning is just one of the many ways that you can spice things up in bed.
Whether you’re still new in the relationship or if things have gone stale in the bedroom lately due to the fact that you have been together for many years –injecting variety into your bedroom routine will definitely sizzle things up again.