Introducing Adult Toys To A Partner
This entry was posted on 12th August 2009.
Many men and women DO want to try adult toys but are afraid to admit this to their partner for fear of being looked upon as strange, weird, inadequate or perverted. The best way to approach introducing an adult toy into your sex life is to discuss it first with your partner. Ok so here is problem number one. You find it difficult to discuss such an intimate thing with your partner? If this is the case, you may have a problem that needs professional advice because if you are not able to discuss sexual pleasure with your partner, it could be you are with the wrong person.
Whilst this may sound harsh on the face of it, it could be true, even if you have been with your partner for many years. By all means try introducing an adult toy into your relationship without first discussing it, but be prepared for a negative response. It is best to talk to your partner first, suggest it in a 'matter of fact way' without putting pressure on them, a suggestion like "I saw a vibrator in a magazine the other day, it was something called a rabbit vibrator, I was thinking as a bit of fun to get one what do you think?" Gauge their response either favourable or negative.
At least you have a starting point. You might like to say the same thing to your partner but in a third party way, in other words, "A group of friends at work today were talking about something called a rabbit vibrator, I was thinking as a bit of fun to get one to see what it is like, what do you think?" Whether the response from your partner is positive or negative, you have at the very least started a discussion. If its positive, then buy one. If its negative, ask your partner why.
Obviously, we can only give limited guidance to this point, as it very much depends on what the response is, the answers to every question your partner comes up with will be varied and we don’t have the space here to cover every response. Hopefully however, this information will help you to break the ice. Assuming you get a favourable response along the lines of "I dont mind giving it a try etc" you then need to consider where to buy your adult toys. Our extensive collection will offer you plenty of choices and at low prices too.