Do You Know What Stimulation is Best for You?
This entry was posted on 23rd December 2010.
Orgasms feel great, and everyone should experience them the more regularly the better in our opinion. In fact, sex and orgasms are great for your mind, body and soul. Numerous studies have proven that sex and orgasms have a wealth of benefits for your health, as they can: relieve tension; help you sleep better; burn calories; reduce depression and even boost your immune system. In general, orgasms make you happier, don’t they?
That said, it’s painful to realise that there are lots of women who find it difficult to achieve orgasm. In fact, research shows that as much as 10% of all women of sexually mature age have never experienced orgasm. And very often the reason for that is the fact that those women have never learned to please themselves. They’ve gone through a series of frustrating sexual encounters and placed the blame on themselves for their inability to reach orgasm. To all these women we say STOP blaming yourselves. There’s a great way you can find out what feels best for you, and it’s very simple. Just invest in a few great sex toys! If you’re alone masturbation with adult toys will work great for you. If you have a partner, talk to them. Often, the issue is the clitoris being under-stimulated during intercourse, which is exactly what causes many women so much frustration – being aroused and stimulated but never getting to reach the fulfilling climax. You should always keep in mind that there are different types of orgasms, and every woman may have her own favourite type of stimulation.
Clitoral – The clitoris can be stimulated either by fingers, your partner’s tongue or sex toys, using your choice of lube. Many women depend on their trusty bullet or Rabbit vibrators, both of which are powerful tools to use when climaxing clitorally (and vaginally, a Rabbit is used).
Penetration/Vaginal – Lots of women find it more difficult to reach orgasm through penetrative sex alone, so why not practise with your favourite vibrator or dildo? Whether you’re petite or want to be completely filled with something girthy, there is a sex toy that is just for you.
G-Spot – Yes, the g-spot is no myth! This small lump of nerve endings about three inches inside the vagina responds amazingly well to stimulation. The preferred method is to stimulate with either fingers or use a G-spot stimulator which is easier and much more effective. This G-spot stimulator is a specially angled dildo, designed specifically to target that area.
Anal – A less popular way to orgasm. However, some women love to climax during anal sex or stimulation. If you are new to the world of anal play check out our smaller ranges of butt plugs, then gradually move to the larger butt plugs and/or dildos and vibrators.
Experimenting with different types of stimulation should help you figure out which one is best for you. Once your body has learned it, you will most likely find yourself on the path to guaranteed pleasure each time!